Patrick Wanis, a human behavior and relationship expert.
“You’re probably best friends because you have a lot in common, you have similar temperaments — and you could have similar taste in men.” Plus, your best friend’s boyfriend is always around, so you have ample time to notice his sexy smile or awesome sense of humor. Wanis explains that the more time we spend with someone, the greater the chance of us falling for him or her.
“Attraction occurs by bonding, and bonding occurs from doing things together and being together,” he says.
So being attracted to your best friend’s BF doesn’t make you evil — or even a bad friend.
Even if you meet someone to whom you think you have no previous connection, a 10-minute conversation almost always reveals that she went to high school with your college roommate, used to be on a volleyball team with that girl from your book club, and had a six-month stand with your favorite barista.
Queers don't tend to expect our dates to come into our lives completely free of prior complication.
This could be the moment everything becomes awkward, it could be the moment you two morph into the greatest couple of all time.1.
They either respond to you right away OR really spaced out.
They believe this is something everybody knows, that they're just following the rules.
What I've noticed, though, is that every person I've heard espouse this worldview was straight.
I (I'm 13 this month, 2nd year at school) made really good friends with a guy (who is 13 and 2nd year at school too), We were really happy.