I don't understand why anyone would eat Flaming Hot Cheetos without chopsticks (keeps the Cheetos dust from getting on the fingers). Don't assume I know how to speak fill-in-the-blank-Asian language. Doesn't matter who's with me, when I'm eating out, I'm going to reach for the check first. With parents and aunts and uncles getting into physical altercations over who gets to pay for dinner.
Hard work has always been sexy to me and these guys were the opposite of the privileged white male (or female, for that matter). My mother was divorced when I was four years old and some of the only father figures I had in my life were Asian men.
We traveled to the Philippines when I was 8 years old and I most certainly left pieces of my heart there. So that’s just a few of the my reasons, it’s easier to see the picture once you have some of the puzzle pieces.
If you don’t do what she is asking for this will make her aggressive towards you and probably break relations. Some Korean women, especially, older ones around 30’s or 40’s, tend to have a fantasy of meeting a foreigner and escaping patriarchal Korean society.
But let me clue you in on a little secret few Korean girls would admit to: it’s all fake.
Treat your girl with respect and do not push her to any sexual interactions if she is not ready for it. If you are a white skin, young, and what’s more good looking male then a lot of Korean girls will quickly and automatically judge you as some sort of playboy.
While dating she might check your phone so better handle it without any comment.
So it means that if you want to be with a Korean guy understand that you’re also going to be with his family.
They will influence his decision as to whether or not he will be with you.
Soon you’ll discover what you can expect and decide for yourself if dating one is worth it.
Whereas a Western man values independence and equality it’s not so for a Korean man.
I'm used to people butchering the pronunciation and spelling of my name.