It’s one of the biggest complaints men have about online dating – they send many messages, but receive few replies.They are told “it’s a numbers game,” but the odds seem exceedingly slim.
In the online world “You’re so beautiful” makes me roll my eyes and assume you type the same thing into every message box. I only respond to messages that show the person read my profile. Creepily noticing what time I’m online and asking me about it… I rarely get along with people who take themselves too seriously.
I hope you never get laid again.” I resist the urge.
Honestly, guys, the number one reason she’s not responding is because she’s not interested.
That’s just kind of an unwritten rule about online dating – no response means not interested. If it offends you that someone won’t take the time to reply to your message, remember that women often receive numerous messages every day, and frankly, responding to each one — even to say “Thanks, but I’m not interested” — would be incredibly time consuming.
Still, we humans like to try and make sense of things. We’re going to assume you’ve already followed our tips for crafting a great profile, which is the first and most important step.
Once you’re sure your profile is solid, the list below offers just a few possibilities of why she might not be responsive to your messages.
“Hey gurl, luv ur pics” is not going to get a response.
More likely to get a response: A message that is directly responsive to several things in the object of your affection’s profile.
Online dating: It is not that hard, and yet so many people make it so hard.