There are numerous psychological answers behind the quandary that perplexes insecure passersby and jealous men staring at these couples across the crosswalk. Unfortunately for the illiterate, the answer lies with the illustrious Jack Kerouac, who once wrote, “The world would never find peace until men fell at their women's feet and asked for forgiveness.” You know what? After years of broken hearts and deceit by the hot men we so yearned after, women are really just looking for someone to show a little worship, a little praise.
(The Frisky) -- Dear Wendy: I acknowledge and accept that I'm not a perfect 10. Only beautiful people can be with beautiful people?
But what drives me nuts is that people keep telling me I've got no chance of finding love with someone who is hot or hotter than me. If you're not perfect in looks, you don't deserve anything hot?
Dating is at best another extracurricular, number six or number seven down the list, somewhere between Model UN and intramural badminton.
I've been co-hosting young alumni events for name-brand schools for long enough to know that these kids come out a little lopsided (which sounds so much better than "socially awkward," don't you think? All they need is a little tune up, or a little dating textbook like The Tao of Dating for Women or The Tao of Dating for Men, to get them going -- plus a little practice.
Anyone may apply, but to become a member you must first be voted in by our panel of judges - yes, it based on looks.
While we don't like having to judge someone's appearance, we need to be selective to maintain the expectations of the current members of Dream Lets face it - physical attraction is the most important factor in choosing a mate.
-- Not a 10 When it comes to dating and mating, there are definitely certain "leagues" we all fall into, and as humans, we're conditioned to pursue the highest league we can attract.
One's league is generally determined by a series of traits, including looks, wealth, age, success and personality.
So if they had challenges then, it gets about 1,000 times worse once they're tossed from the warm womb of their alma mater. For simple things, it takes someone smart to really screw it up. Take piano, violin, tennis, swimming and Tibetan throat-singing lessons. Be "well-rounded." Well, you're a talented little bugger. At the same time, there's an opportunity cost associated with achievement.