I’m talking about the energetic concept that makes that kind of sex possible: balance of the masculine and feminine energies. After getting out of a very intense five-year relationship, I actually took a year off from dating altogether.At the end of the year, I met a lovely lawyer in LA who subsequently flew to New York City to woo me. He really had his shit together, but one night lying naked in bed he called me a “stallion” – and I knew as soon as he uttered that word that we weren’t a match. But to his credit, the dating experience was so positive it got me back in the saddle and over my fear of opening up my sacred sexual energy to a new partner.In today’s age, we can leave out gender labeling and merely define it as, “two people whose sole purpose is to become one with God.” Tantra is the essential and deepest of lovemaking where all the senses of the root chakra are embraced to enlightenment.
Where were the guys that I would actually want to meet and touch in person? As I browsed through the online shopping mall of men, I realized my approach needed to evolve. What if the right men weren’t reaching out to me because they thought they might get rejected? After all, my profile status was set to “Replies Very Selectively”.
At the time, I didn’t realize what I was experiencing even had a label. All my experiences with previous partners prior to this felt much more primitive and focused on “doing” as opposed to “being.” For the first time in my life, my partner met my intensity and there was a connection I had longed for which was finally realized.
Are you picking up a squid as a metaphor for different and unique?
I’m pretty sure I discovered the secret to online dating. I’m not talking about super-connected, total body orgasm, tantric sex.
Almost immediately my inbox was flooded with hundreds of messages from dudes who: 1. Were clever but weren’t particularly attractive: “Multiple photos of you in leggings before 11am. Were so totally wrong for me (and also crazy, with really poor grammar): “So I was reading your profile and then I was like goddammit…this always happens every time, I’m reading some nice girl like your selfs profile and then I remember I didn’t check your diet…Bam!
I know I’m fucked before I even look, she’s going to be a god damned vegan, CRAP!
I usually visit Chiang Mai every summer for about 2 week Chiang Mai Chiang Mai Jade-Dragon 41 Man Seeking Women Exploring divinity in all things, how we are all connected, love, energy, and the way the universe unfolds in the moment and all moments is my practice.
Probably not if you needed this expl Near Salem Massachusetts Lordsifl 51 Man Seeking Women Hello, I actually live in China, however I have been visiting Chiang Mai for over 5 years, I just really like the healthy climate of the city.
There is some serious seasonal romance in the air and often this leads to an exploration of new methods and ways of relating to an already existing partner, or a desire to attract another person with the mere mention of “attaining oneness with God” through deeply woven intimate connecting. To be one in consciousness with our beloved partner, adding in all the “in sickness and health” and “until death do us part” stuff too.